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(514) 710-3129

Anxiety and Anger Counselling

Anxiety and Anger Counselling by Ron Pagé

Anger: Beyond Management

We all understand what anger is and have experienced it at some point, whether it was a brief annoyance or a full-blown rage. Anger is an entirely natural and necessary human emotion. But when it spirals out of control, it may lead us to yell at our children, threaten coworkers, send rash emails, develop health issues, or turn to physical violence towards ourself and / or towards others.

It’s helpful to remember that our anger is as deep as our pain. 

Fleeing that pain can take on two forms:

  1. Anger management.  I liken anger management to pressing a cover down on a pot of boiling water in hopes of keeping it from boiling over.  It might contain it for a time but will eventually lead to dangerous blow ups.

  2. Internalize: Turning the anger inward makes us vulnerable to depression and self-harming behaviours.

 
Instead, let me help you deal with the fire underneath that boiling pot of anger. Doing so will turn anger into something constructive and caring instead of destructive.
 

 

Anxiety: Beyond Management

When our kitchen’s smoke detector goes off, we don’t run away from the noise. Nor do we focus on taking the batteries out of the alarm. A smoke detector is not a problem to avoid and minimize but a signal to alert and point us to the real problem.

It’s the same for anxiety. When we see anxiety as the problem, we’ll seek relief by avoiding, suppressing, or managing it. Have you ever noticed that these efforts often intensify the alarm?

That is why I call Anxiety a friend. And as a good friend, it will not let us go on ignoring the problem that threatens our welfare and that of those we love. Let me help you deal with the fire in the kitchen so Anxiety can stop blaring.

Currently offering remote sessions exclusively.

We all long to live full and satisfying lives. Sometimes, however, we hit a dead end, or feel stuck in patterns that sabotage the quality of life we long for. As much as we’d like to bring about the needed changes on our own, sometimes we need outside help. Calling on a therapist is not a sign of weakness. On the contrary, making use of the trained skills of a professional is a sign of strength, courage, and the desire to invest in yourself.
During the initial session, we will talk about what brought you to therapy. We’ll define your goals and the issues you want to address. In the case of couple and family sessions, each person will be asked to share their perspective. I will ask questions about the problem to develop a deeper understanding, and may ask questions about other issues, individual histories, and solutions you’ve already attempted. Subsequent sessions will focus on reaching your goals along with addressing obstacles and conflicts that arise along the way.
Sessions are usually 50 min long. That can be extended particularly for people who travel from out of town.
We usually start meeting on a weekly basis and then space sessions further apart as things improve. Weekly sessions allow for addressing important issues and maintain a sense of continuity through the process. The frequency of sessions, however, is flexible and is based on your needs.
The duration of therapy varies greatly from person to person and depends on your goals and the issues you want to address. Your goals will be defined during our first session.
Payments can be made either by email transfers at the end of each session.

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